
Henna Hand … captured on October 19, 2009 - 5DWhere does one find the time? You leave the house before 8 in the morning and you don't get home 'til after 5:00. There's dinner, some time with the kids, homework, and the next thing you know, it's 9:00 pm. By this time, all you're looking forward to is a little down time in front of the TV. Or, like us, you're catching up with the first season of Mad Men on DVD. But that hour or two is never enough. It's not enough to get to those tasks you've promised yourself you'd do; like the home movies, or the half dozen jobs you've got lined up for the volunteer organization you're working for, or even, to simply clean up the house.
Piano lessons. Soccer practice. Halloween and birthday parties. New clothes. Bigger clothes. Longer clothes.
I haven't done any yoga in 6 months. My chakra is so misaligned, I can't see straight (OK, I thought that was funny). Unfortunately, I can't do yoga first thing in the morning. Despite being a morning person, that doesn't extend to exercising at 6:00 am. I can't do it after dinner because the child's pose—among others—doesn't lend itself to a full stomach. I suppose that leaves after work because by the time Matthew goes to bed, near 9:00, I've no energy left. Of course, I'm pretty wiped when I get home too.
So where do you find the time and when did life get so busy? I suppose, as the kids grow older, the time will come. But until then we, and those parents around us, will just keep plowing through life like chickens with our heads cut off. For those of you who've been there but since moved on, let me remind you: it's exhausting.